Bay Windows
Young Gay
Activists Making a Difference
First of a
series on recent trends in gay community
activism
By Laura Kiritsy
Media Credit: Marilyn
Humphries
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Like many others, Jennifer
Melenciano, activism was the next step after coming out.
coming out
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By the time he was an eighth
grader at West Snyder High School in rural Snyder County, Pennsylvania, Mark
Snyder knew what he wanted to do with his life. Having endured daily physical
and verbal anti-gay harassment by classmates since he entered the school in
seventh grade, Snyder resolved to make schools safer for himself and others like
him. ``I kind of knew because of access to the Internet and TV that there were
normal people out there," says the 19-year-old Emerson College sophomore. ``[I
knew] that there was another world outside of Snyder County and I kind of
promised myself in eighth grade that I was going to dedicate my work, my career,
my life to creating change as far as the rights and safety of LGBT youth."
That's exactly what Snyder did by enrolling in an Emerson program where
he simultaneously finished his senior year of high school and first year of
college. He took a leadership role at the Emerson Alliance for Gays, Lesbians
and Everyone (EAGLE). What really ``propelled my activist stuff," he says , was
joining the Boston Alliance of Gay and Lesbian Youth (BAGLY), where he is a
board member and health educator. Snyder's involvement with BAGLY led him to
hook up with SpeakOut, a local LGBT speakers bureau, which has provided some of
the most rewarding experiences of his activist career.
``When I go to
the high schools," Snyder explains, ``and I talk to kids and they listen and
they tell me, `Oh I'm not going to use the word fag anymore,' that's when I
really feel like I'm making a difference." The public-relations major is also a
member of the Massachusetts Department of Education and BAGLY speakers bureaus,
and interns at the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force's (NGLTF) Cambridge field
office. Then there's the Web site he started three months ago called
queertoday.com, a resource for local GLBT youth he someday hopes to grow into a
national non-profit organization. It's a far cry from his days as a depressed,
suicidal ninth grader who, fed up with being abused while school administrators
stood idly by, was ready to quit school.
Snyder is among a boom of LGBT
people heeding the call to activism at younger and younger ages. It's a trend
that longtime activist Sue Hyde, who since 1988 has trained thousands of gay
activists at NGLTF's annual Creating Change Conference, has watched grow over
the last decade. While the average age of the aspiring activists Hyde sees at
the conferences is largely in the 30 to 50 range, she notes, ``[S]ince 1992, the
Creating Change Conference has increasingly become a place for activists and
organizers 24 and under to gather and to participate in political trainings,
many of which are planned and presented by other people 24 and under. Which I
think is really one of the hallmarks of any group of people coming into its own.
When youth 24 and under and elders 60 and over, or LGBT people of color,
transgender people, bisexual people--when groups within our community can
elevate and recognize their own leadership I think it's a very significant
coming of age for that particular group. And over the last 10 years there's been
a tremendous growth in not just community organizing for LGBT young people, but
community organizing by LGBT young people."
The 50 year-old Hyde
attributes the trend to a ``generational shift" in the consciousness of the LGBT
community. ``Young people are coming out earlier and coming out stronger and
more proudly, so to speak, certainly than almost everyone I know in my own age
bracket, in my own generational slice of the community. And it is a very
inspiring, impressive process to witness."
It's probably no coincidence
that the past decade, during which Hyde has observed a growth in youth activism,
coincides with the proliferation of Gay Straight Alliances (GSAs) in public high
schools in Massachusetts and around the country. Back in 1992, just a handful of
GSAs existed in the Bay State; now, more than half of its 300 hundred public
high schools have active GSAs. While the primary focus of the groups is
promoting tolerance and safety for all students, they allow students to branch
out in other ways as well. ``I think it's just hard to overstate how important
these bodies have been," says Kevin Jennings, executive director of the National
Gay Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN). ``Because what they've done
is they are kind of the place where these young people learn about leadership
skills, how to be activists, and [students] are coming into college with already
several years of effective organizing experience behind them. For a lot of us in
the LGBT movement who are my age, it was on-the-job training if you would,"
laughs the 39 year-old Jennings. ``I'm looking at students who apply for
internships here now who are 18 and already have 12 leadership positions with
LGBT-related activities. ...It's amazing."
Twenty-year old Jennifer
Melenciano is one student who cut her activist teeth in a GSA. After coming out
to her friends and family as a student at Boston English High School, Melenciano
started the school's first GSA. ``I saw that I was a role model for a lot of the
other people who were still in the closet and then again I saw how people
treated them," she explains. Though she never personally experienced anti-gay
harassment in or out of school, she knew others who did. ``I thought, these are
my friends being hurt, this is my family being hurt, and I have to take a stand.
I would have to make a change if they don't want to do it, or are too scared to
do it for themselves." Last September, Melenciano began working with Boston's
Gay and Lesbian Adolescent Social Services (GLASS). As a member of Shades of
Color, the organization's peer education group, Melenciano visited schools,
youth centers and other community organizations to discuss a range of issues
from AIDS and pregnancy prevention to homophobia, transphobia and coming out
issues. She eventually was able to put her experience to good use as a case
manager for HIV-positive and high risk youth at the Latino Health Institute,
where she has worked for the past three months.
Her youthful activism has
had a marked effect on her life. ``I would have to say for myself, it just feels
like I've come a long way and made an accomplishment, and conquered one of my
goals," she says. ``Because when I first came out I couldn't think of possibly
telling anyone [I am gay] or working with gay people...and now I'm really open
with it. And after that you have more opportunity as you grow. You can tell
people, I did this and I worked here and this is what I'm all about, truthfully
and honestly."
Melenciano's description of the personal impact of her
activism is precisely what Jennings is talking about when he discusses the
transformation that frequently occurs when students join GSAs. While many
initially seek the support of a GSA because they are being harassed or
struggling with sexual orientation issues, Jennings says, ``What a GSA does, it
allows a young person to transform their experience from being powerless to
understanding that they do have power. They have some control over the destiny
of their life and the course it takes. And that is just incredibly important for
every young person, gay or not to learn--that they can control their fate." The
very act of getting involved ``teaches them about the power they have to shape
the course of their lives," he adds. ``You can't control what other people do
and often when you're young and gay you don't necessarily feel like you have any
control over your own life. And being in a gay/straight alliance they start to
learn that they can make a difference. And that they don't have to be a victim.
And that's an incredibly important lesson to learn--the earlier the
better."
Needless to say, Jennings is enthusiastic about the influx of
young people into the gay rights movement. ``I think we're at a watershed moment
in the history of this movement where young people are moving to the front and
center of it," he observes. ``And when that has happened in the past with other
movements like the African-American civil rights movement or the Vietnam War
movement, it was the factor that propelled those movements to victory. So I'm
very hopeful for the future."
(An article on the generation gap in
the gay movement will be published later in July.)
Laura Kiritsy is a staff writer at Bay Windows. Her e-mail
address is lkiritsy@baywindows.com.
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