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Family of Marcus Wayman Speaks Out

For Immediate Release:
August 28, 2002

Contact:
Kyle N. Quandel 212.340.9591

New York, NY: In a pioneering effort, the family of Marcus Wayman-Sterling publicly speaks out against the police who violated their son's privacy rights. The agony, pain and suffering of losing Marcus to suicide by the warped and twisted beliefs of the police who "protect and serve," bring Marcus' family together; speaking out for tolerance, sending a clear message that the invasion of anyone's privacy is unethical, immoral and moreover, illegal.

On Friday, August 23, 2002, the Sterling family appeared on a local Pennsylvania newscast for an unprecedented and candid interview. This comes at a time when national networks are vying for exclusive rights to cover pre-trial issues (fall 2002).

Kyle N. Quandel (publicist for the Sterling family) says, "It's time to show the public the profound effects of losing a son to suicide, police misconduct and threats to 'out' Marcus as being gay. Losing Marcus continues to have an intense affect on the family."

In April 1997, in Minersville, PA, police officers approached two teens, Marcus Wayman and a friend. The boys were in an abandoned parking lot where they were turning their vehicle around.

After finding condoms on the teens, the officers concluded they were "queers." Officer J. Scott Willinsky states in court the boys said they stopped to have sex. The narrow-minded officer threatened to tell Wayman's family and community that he was a 'fag' and quoted biblical passages while placing them under arrest for underage drinking. Wayman, a High School football player (scared that he would be "outed" as a "fag" by police to the community and his deeply moral family) took a gun to his head four hours later and shot himself. Marcus was 18.

Minersville thug police (whose salary is funded through tax-dollars), concluded that two teen boys … in a car … carrying condoms … were gay (Condoms = Queer?).

"My heart has been torn out; my arms are empty from his huge bear hugs. I NEVER want another mother to feel that her arms are left empty," says Madonna Sterling. "If Marcus was gay, we wouldn't have loved him any less. The fact is we will never get the opportunity to tell Marcus that: Minersville police took that right away from us."

Madonna Sterling filed civil charges against Minersville police officers - Police Chief Joseph Willinsky, son J. Scott Willinsky, claiming that the officers violated her son’s privacy rights. In November 2001, a jury acquitted the police from any wrongdoing!

Thankfully, the presiding Judge Arnold C. Rapoport concluded on June 17, 2002, that the trial was a clear "miscarriage of justice," tossing the jury verdict and moved for a new trial, expected this fall.

"This is an issue of privacy, police accountability and tolerance. While officers must remain accountable for their actions, the widespread message we are hoping to send, is to talk to your children now … before it's too late" says Quandel. "Marcus is dead; having thought suicide is preferable to being labeled as gay. How many more children do we need to lose before we begin to teach diversity and tolerance? This will send a clear message to all parents. Teach your children tolerance and diversity. Acceptance of your child begins at birth!"

"Missing … have you seen Marcus Wayman? Chances are you haven't because police violated his privacy rights that prompted his suicide." Quandel continues, "If that offends you, it should! This could happen to your son, brother or friend just as easy as it did to Marcus."

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